Revision summary
Family: kinship, descent, alliance, and care norms, including non-resident kin. Household: coresidence and shared domestic economy, including non-kin. Mead, Levi-Strauss, Parsons, Marx, and Oakley attach to family functions and household labour. Census and NFHS count households; family obligations often exceed the roof. Distinction matters for migration, servants, and women’s claims.
Model answer
Copper italics in this answer — like this — are the key facts. Each one is unpacked in the Facts & figures rail.
Introduction
Family and household are often collapsed in everyday talk and in some Census tables. Sociologically they answer different questions. Family is a kinship and marriage relation. Household is a residential and commensal unit.
Body
Family
- A set of relations of descent, alliance, and parenthood, with norms of care, sexuality, and succession.
- It can be nuclear, joint, or extended in ideology without sharing one roof.
- George Herbert Mead: the family as the first game of roles, which can include absent kin.
- Claude Levi-Strauss: alliance may bind groups who never coreside.
- Talcott Parsons specialised the modern family in socialisation; that is a function of a kinship unit, not a house plan.
Household
- Persons who live together and typically share a cooking pot, as Census household definitions try to capture.
- Can include servants, lodgers, and friends: not all are kin.
- Can exclude migrant spouses and children who remain family.
- Karl Marx: the household is often the site of reproduction of labour-power, including unpaid care that Ann Oakley made visible.
Distinction
- Family is jural and moral belonging. Household is a dwelling-and-budget unit.
- Max Weber’s household communism of consumption is a possible household form, not the whole of kinship.
- Emile Durkheim’s domestic morals can stretch across several households of a lineage.
- NFHS interviews a household; many family decisions sit with kin outside it.
Why the cut matters
- Policy that targets “household income” can miss women’s natal family claims and split-migrant families.
- Calling every Census house a “family” hides female-headed residential units that still sit in a patriarchal family system.
Flow diagram
flowchart TD FAM[Family kinship alliance] --> OBL[Care descent marriage] HH[Household residence] --> POT[Shared dwelling budget] FAM --> OVER[Overlap not identity] HH[HH] --> OVER[OVER]
Conclusion
Family names kinship, marriage, and care obligations. Household names who coresides and shares a domestic economy. Mead, Levi-Strauss, Marx, and official surveys all need the split. Do not read the cooking pot as the whole of kinship, or the lineage as a single address.
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How do the rules of descent and alliance in kinship differ from each other? Illustrate.
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Is a joint family one household?
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Are roommates a family?
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2018 · Q6(b) · Sociology GS 1 · 15 marks
Distinguish between family and household with reference to the concept of development of the household.
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